Guess what?

I messed up my sewing project AGAIN! Out of the 3 sewing projects since the beginning of this semester, i screwed up twice and have to RESTART from scratch. The 1st time was a skirt project, i was so sad, frustrated, disappointed and CRIED so HARD when i know i had to redo. All ALONE. BUT i called my mom to tell her and she encouraged me, and i felt so much better. This time round, i am frustrated, but not as intense as the last time. Sad, but not very sad. Disappointed?? Not anymore. I am taking this as a learning process. I'm in school, i'm supposed to fail and failing is what you can do in school. I've given my best and maybe, one has to give her best TWICE or even THRICE before the right result will be achieved. Agree? In the near future, as we all enter the adult world, we are bound to meet failure and tough circumstances. By then, we shouldn't be crying anymore.(like me) We should be figuring out where the problem is and do trial and error. School is the time to polish this skill of "never giving up". I might be slower in terms of getting the grasp of sewing. But, I can feel my confidence is building up slowly with each failure. I've been figuring out difficult parts by myself and have learned much more than previous sewing classes.

Remember, Shi Pai Nai Chen Gong Zhi Mu. :) I used to have to cry, before i could stand up. Now, I can stand up. :)

Open Up

Everyone lives in their own world. They have they own goals in life and constantly, they will do lots of things to achieve their wishes. One can be selfish and work as a hermit and don't let people know what they are doing. That's alright, but if they were to enclose themselves even from their loved ones, that's dangerous. Their loved ones care about them much and want to witness their growing success. They themselves won't be involved directly with your goals but they want to feel being part of it. It isn't asking you to go around telling people your dreams, but just to your loved ones, because they are the only one who will look out for you when you can't see clearly. :)

I'm going to the doc's later. wish me luckk~~

updated photos for my personal podiatrist. hehehe :)

I am so tired now. I don't know why i've been so lethargic and lazy since the beginning of this semester. I take naps, sleep early, wake up late, rarely go gym, stay home and do homework. :( I've got to do something. I will definitely start the gym routine once i get my callus/corn/wart checked by the podiatrist on monday. But it is getting better, it isn't as hard, but, still can feel it when i walk.

Btw, sorry about the photos guys, might be disturbing, but, it is a record of what i'm going through now, it is important to me to blog it down too.

My brother sent me a short article.


After reading it, it made me reflect a little. Treating the human brain as an inbox, filled with information of that day, for instance 50 over emails per day for a working adult, deadlines, projects and tests for a student, and the endless worrisome future that is ahead of all of us. It can be quite stressful for our soul to handle. Shouldn't we too empty these strenuous thoughts and go to bed with a piece of calm mind? I wish life is so simple...like an email account.






Thank you Carol! :) Your help is so appreciated here. :)

Big Head Prawn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just realise the reason why my callus hasn't gotten any better despite using the callus remover plaster!!!!!!!!! I've been sticking the plaster (left side) THINKING that it will attack my callus because of the medicated salicylic acid, right? But to hell with it!!!!!!!!! I just realised the salicylic acid is in a different package (right side) Who in the world can get as BLUR, DUMB AND TOOOTTT as me? WHO?!?! tell me?? i can't believe this!!!!! so frustrating. And Xiu Hua's friend, a podiatrist in the making, gave me a great consultation last night and i didn't even realise that i haven't been applying it properly. *boo hoo hoo* i feel like taking out my brain and slamp it onto the wall. and see it being squashed! :(

enough, enough. at least i realised it. so, it is NEVER too late. Just applied it the correct way. If not, come thursday, i will go to the podiatrist near my place and get the thick callus removed. argh!!

Today, i woke up with sharp pain of "gastricism". Had Po Chai Yin. rested for a while and went to school. This 2 months, i broke the record of eating 1 whole box of Po Chai Yin. I hope i won't get immuned to it, it is such a wonderful remedy. :P

Okay...sian balls (A term I got influence from my sister, apparently she learnt it from Shui Sheng) It means, being frustrated with something despite trying so many times and still fail. This is what i'm feeling right now. Anyways, i will polish up the balls so that it won't be so dull anymore.

Off to draft my patterns. Btw, Big Head Prawns in Canton means....being blur.

One of the good nights alone

Being very determined to cook the chicken which i took it out of the freezer since Saturday, I went straight to make my dinner once i got home. Luckily, it was still fresh. Quite proud of myself because i resisted the temptation of having it easy by Peter's "Want to go Stones?" Stonestown is a shopping mall near my place. but, nah...

And, my housemate made soup, i "cope" (took in Singlish) 1 big bowl!!! It was some Mexican noodle soup with chicken. It was good. This dinner is considered a good meal, according to my "live alone meals" standards.



The callus under my left foot is getting worse. It has thicken so much that it hurts to put little pressure when i walk. I bought more callus remover pads with salicylic acid. Xiu Hua-my long time friend who is pursuing nursing in Mel is helping me get advice from her friend, a podiatry. :) I'm going to give it 1 more month, or else i'm going under the knife.

Today one of the founders of "Enyce" http://www.enyce.com/ came to my school to give a talk about his clothing company. But surprisingly, he didn't present much stuff on his business. Instead, he was talking about his life, how his personality and values helped him in surviving in the throat cutting industry. His keys to success.
1) Have leadership
2) Know what you don't know
3) Endings are beginnings
4) Love what you do!!!
5) You have to produce results
6) Don't be afraid to think big, take risks and make commitments
7) Have a belief
8) Trust others, Trust yourself
9) Seek help from others when you don't know
10) Generology = Give back to the world
11) Don't take things personally. 10% is what you do, AND 90% is your reaction to the situation.
12) Be the gardener to your garden. Have pure seeds, so that you can cultivate pure thoughts.

and finally, he left us with this poem which i think is inspiring..


Autobiography in Five Short Chapters

By Portia Nelson

Chapter I

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in
I am lost . . . I am helpless
It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

Chapter II

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don’t see it.
I fall in again.
I can’t believe I am in the same place.
But, it isn’t my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

Chapter III

I walk down the same street
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in . . . it’s a habit.
My eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

Chapter IV

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

Chapter V

I walk down another street.

Simple, yet beautiful....:)

Goood day!

I woke up this morning feeling great. I haven't felt like that in a long time. Maybe the sangria did a good job. I don't know? We went to catch a movie last night.Me and Jo at the Century. We watched "The Departed". I didn't get the chance to see "Wu Jian Dao" so it was hard to get into the movie at the beginning, with their accent and speaking thick slang. and lots of "Mother Fucker"...haha. but I sort of caught on and my heart was racing so quick for Leonardo-the good guy when he was up at the roof top with Damon. It is amazing how movies can make you feel what they want you to feel just by sitting on that chair. Jack did his role so well. I love his acting!! :) can't wait to catch Marie Antionette next week.

to do list on a Sunday:
1) Get Zheng Gu Water from Pacific Supermarket. think i sprained my calf muscles somehow..
2) Thank god, i did my laundry already.
3) Clean the stain infested stove. really disgusting
4) Finish reading Aesthetics and the Renaissance.
5) 2 more garments to be drawn on Illustrator.
6) Study for buying classs midterm on Tuesday.
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YiYi

I just finished watching this simple yet beautiful film by Edward Yang, YiYi. Set in the 90s, based in Taiwan on a family of 4. It tells us different stories. How each member takes on their own routes in life which will mold them individually. They aren't as connected as a family physically very much, but emotionally, they seem to be strong and always there for each other. The movie is quite long, might be due to the detailing work the director went into for each character.

Power of your mind...

The vent behind the skirt wasn't so bad after all. (thought to be the hardest part) I told my subconcious mind that I will be able to figure it out after studying the sample and sure enough, it was a breeze, i was so proud of myself! it didn't take so long to get it out either. The Power of your Subconcious mind. Very powerful. U reap what you sow. A positive seed will result in amazing conditions. and the feeling of being surrounded with such positive energy is immensely wonderful. It is quite weak at the moment, but i want to see it grow. :)

Today, my design class went for a mini field trip to Nordstrom-a departmental store near school. Victor & Rolf, Dutch designers are in town for the launch of their perfume "Flowerboom". It caused quite a hype with the girls in my class. To me, i'm neutral. If it was Tanya Chua or j.j., it might be a different story. :P My design teacher Sara Kowloski had to purchase the perfume, in order for us to line up and meet them. $100+++ My classmate asked them a question "what can us, young students, do to survive in this throat cutting industry?" "BE original!, everybody is copying other designers and everything look so the same, be original and create something of your own. Be Yourself." Think this is the most worth while thing to be there. :)

it is 6pm on a Friday night. I've got nothing planned tonight. I'm waiting for something exciting to happen. It won't be as great as last week but i'm still excited. Maybe being alone is exciting. I wish i can have something Chinese tonight for dinner. The bok choy I got from the groceries is hard to cook. What should i have then? Udon ? I feel like going Aunt's.....

i am feeling so much better....

I took out the jade bangle yesterday. Last night, when i took my late night shower. superstitiously, i felt that it is this piece of jade that has cast a bad spell for me over the past 2 months. Sorry mom. i don't mean anything bad, just superstitiouly. i had to be rushed to hospital 1 monday night, due to some bladder infection problem, and couldn't move on the next tuesday morning due to bad period cramps. What's more? I missed 2 days of school, missed pattern drafting demos and felt so left behind in school work. Have you all experience the excitement of completing a project but at the last min, found out you screw up something very badly and have to re-do the whole thing? yes, i mean RE-DO. I went through that on Monday too. i just feel that this semester is not going towards the light. the brighter light.

But, today, i feel that good things are coming my way. I re did my skirt, and is satisfied with the results. I finally felt in control during Computers for Fashion class. And lastly, to end this night with a fantastic note, i met this girl. She's French, an exchange student from my school, a senior, who lives 10 mins away from me. was working late today in the lab, and didn't want to go home alone. so i approached her, and asked her if she wants to go home together with me. and yes..blah blah..chat chat...nice girl. really. she offered me to stay over her house whenever i am so late. i reached hom at 11:45pm. its not so bad, but my neighbourhood is really nasty at night. not suitable to walk alone. :( but......

i'll cross my fingers. and hope positive things will come my way....i deserve a break. really.

A found soul in San Francisco

I've been trying to explore this blogger's features and also how to "zng" (modify) it to make it more personal. however, i'm too cyber-space illiterate that i'll push it to later. Maybe i'll consult Gary's help later part of the month when he won't be facing more Monster Weeks. Maybe, if i still motivated to update my blog. been having an affair with my beloved Illustrator. Been practicing vector drawing whole week and i'm really getting the hang of it. From frustration, to getting front-back flats in less that an hour. :) still pathetic, but the amount of confidence i've achieve is great. i'm amazed that the kind of art work illustrator can produce. I just wish to develop the same kind of confidence for drafting patterns and sewing garments.

Peter's dad is in town yesterday. I think he's going to stay for at least 1 month. :) hopefully they will spend quality time together as a family together since they sort of missed each other during the Summer break. :) and as for me, i going to read this book "The Power of your Subconcious Mind". Will pick it up at the library before i head to school. I need to get my mind going towards the postive direction. :) Start gyming.~

the very 1st entry

The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck. A Chinese peasant family, started off simple, poor yet happy. And ended with the realities of life when one becomes rich. Unfilial, petty arguments and unsatisfied with life. It disgusted me, especially reading how wasteful humans become when they have more than what they need. A good book to go through, you can still learn much from their experiences. :)